STOP SCROLLING! Ask yourself, What am I UpFor right now? Your friends want to know. With UpFor, let the people in your life know exactly what youre interested in doing that exact moment. Choose some friends to see a passive invitation to whatever it is youre planning on doing.
Having a poolday? grabbing a drink or coffee after work? you would be shocked to learn whos in that same boat, but wouldnt dare ask out of the blue. Drop the anxiety and burden of providing an Instagram-able worthy event, and just go do what you love, with people you actually care about again.
Going back home, or out of town? You cant really schedule something everyone, so just let them know what youre doing- Consider UpFor the anti-away message, letting folks know when your UpFor something (and when youre not).